SEX and the CITY

Every month we hold a youth fellowship, where we discuss how we can grow more spiritually, where we have the opportunity not only to learn more, but also to have fun. The theme of the month of November was "Sex and the City" , where we learned about the real meaning of sex. This was a very interesting topic...

What is Sex anyway?? When I looked it up in the dictionary, sex is defined as a designation, whether male or female, according to a person's role in reproduction. It also said that sex is a sexual activity or behavior. But when I looked in the Bible, sex is said to be a gift given by God that can only be enjoyed by married people. Sex is a wonderful thing but becomes a sin if we do it outside marriage. Married people enjoy this pleasure because they know that this is a gift God gave them. Why do people engage in premarital sex?

REASONS WHY PEOPLE ENGAGE IN IT: (1) They therefore want to have a feel of it and prove to their friends out there that they are also experienced in the act. (2) They believe that they need to acquire sexual experience, train it sufficiently so that their husbands can appreciate them in bed.

"Premarital sexual relationships are strongly condemned in both the Old Testament and New Testament of the Bible. Therefore, Christians who engage in premarital sex are breaking God's laws and are not following Jesus Christ. Under such practices, God is not honored, and both yours and your partner's walk with Christ is hampered. In addition, one's witness for Jesus is nullified, since even non-believers know that living together before marriage is not what a Christian should do. If you are involved in this kind of relationship, you need to repent and start living according to biblical standards. It is not okay for a Christian to keep living a sinful lifestyle, including sexual intimacy before marriage." - http://www.godandscience.org/doctrine/fornication.htmle.org/doctrine/fornication.html

BENEFITS OF WAITING

-> God will be pleased.

-> Your parents will be happy.

-> You will be safe from unnecessary pain

DISADVANTAGES OF NOT WAITING

-> You'll miss out on the wonderful plan of God.

-> Sadly, you'll experience pain and consequences of your decision.

-> Dreams can be shattered.

It's sad to see that many of our youths have engaged in this and have allowed it to destroy their lives and dreams. In life, sometimes we look for something that we think will complete us and let us feel accepted, Sadly, some people get involved with premarital sex and other immortal activities. As Christians we need to stay pure and learn to wait for the right time and right person, because it is a blessing to find someone with whom you can spend your whole life.

Thank You...

Just want to say thank you...

To those who greeted and sent me wishes via email, phone text, and social web account/s, THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR REMEMBERING ME AND MY BIRTHDAY. Special Mention to: Blingee for sending me an Ecard, Symbianize team and Twitter/Facebook friends.

P.S
People who sent me greetings via mobile WITH UNKNOWN CELL NOs. (strangers) Thank You.

You made my day so happy. Merry Christmas and have a fruitful New Year!! God bless you all. ('',)

TO EVERY GUY

“We are a Dying Breed”
To every guy that has said, “You’re beautiful.”
To every guy that has said, “Sex CAN wait.”
To every guy that was never too busy to drive across town to see her.
To every guy that gives flowers and a card.
To every guy who has given her flowers just because.
To every guy that said he would die for her.
To every guy that really would.
To every guy that did what she wanted to do.
To every guy that cried in front of her.
To every guy that she cried in front of.
To every guy that holds hands with her.
To every guy that hugs her when she’s sad.
To every guy that hugs her for no reason at all.
To every guy who would give their jacket up for her.
To every guy that calls(or texts) to make sure she got home safe.
To every guy that would sit and wait for her for hours just to see her for ten minutes.
To every guy that would give his seat up.
To every guy that just wants to cuddle.
To every guy that reassured her that she was beautiful no matter what.
To every guy who told his secrets to her.
To every guy that tried to show how much he cared through every word and every breath.
To every guy that thought maybe this could be the one.
To every guy that believed in her dreams.
To every guy that would have done anything so she could achieve them.
To every guy that never laughed at her when she told him her dreams.
To every guy that walked her to her house.
To every guy that gave his heart.
To every guy who prays that she is happy even if he is not with her.
To every guy who is willing to wait for years just to prove his love for her.

To every guy who still prioritizes God instead of making the girl as the sun of his life.

…This one bulletin post is for you…
Not many girls appreciate nice guys anymore… And because of this, there are not many left out there… I guarantee 90% of the men on your page will not repost this because they care more about their image.

Noted by: http://twitter.com/iamsharleen
Reposted by: http://twitter.com/ninzlimpiada

Hear. Feel. Follow.

As I was searching the song at mixpod, I saw this video made by Daniel Choo. When I first heard the voice I thought it was a lip sing but suddenly as I continue hearing the song, I was wronged! Yes, indeed! It was a wronged accusation. It was his real voice, his wonderful voice! ;-) His guitar skills are so cool!!! He sang the song well!!! I really admire him so much! This is how God showing us His greatness and awesome gift that we have to share. When I was hearing this song, my heart was crying. The song really touched me inside and I was about to repeat playing the music more than 10 times. The lyrics have so many things to be said. If you hear it, feel it, and follow the rythm of music, you will surely comprehend the essence of the song. Okay, back to Daniel Choo, I must say that, you are so great, a very talented guy, you get inspire people by means of loving the music and instruments. Continue playing the music of God. Keep up the good work! Btw, the original artist/song of Holy is the Lord is Chris Tomlin from the album Arriving.

HOLY IS THE LORD GOD ALMIGHTY.

Praise and Worship - A Natural Desire

Praise and Worship seems to be universal. Have you ever heard of an explorer finding a new tribe or culture that doesn't worship? Worship is a natural instinct and a basic need for every person. A simple definition of worship is to regard with great devotion or to honor as a divine being. Take a second to think about what you are most devoted to in this life and ask yourself, "Is it worthy of my devotion; do I worship a divine being?"

We don't all worship the same God, but everyone worships something or someone. Since we all worship, we should question the reason for this desire. The most logical conclusion is that we were created by a higher being for the very purpose of worship.

The ongoing quest of man is to find answers to the fundamental questions of human origin, human nature, and human destiny. There is one book that has the answers to all these questions, including our questions about worship. The Bible is the wonderful and mysterious book that God has chosen as a way to communicate with us.

God is the focus of our devotion in both the Old Testament and the New Testament. In Exodus 20:2-3, God says, "I am the LORD your God .....You shall have no other gods before me." In Matthew 4:10, Jesus says, "Worship the Lord your God and serve him only." So, worship is not merely a natural instinct, it's a command from God.

Praise and Worship - Why Should We do it?

God alone is worthy of our devotion, praise and worship. He is God, our Creator, and we are commanded to praise and worship Him. Psalm 96:9 says, "Worship the Lord in the splendor of his holiness; tremble before him, all the earth." Psalm 29:2 says, "Give unto the Lord the glory due his name; worship the Lord in the beauty of holiness."

A.W. Tozer said, "Without worship, we go about miserable." God doesn't want us to be miserable -- He has a perfect plan for our lives. He has done so many things to show us that He loves us and doesn't want us to be miserable. He wants us to have hope for a future with Him --he wants us to have eternal life in heaven with Him.

A life of praise and worship fills our deepest needs, and amazingly, it also brings great joy to God. Zephaniah 3:17 states, "The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing."

Praise and Worship - How Do We do it?

God tells us how to praise and worship him in His Word. John 4:23 says, "Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks." In order to worship God in truth, we need to know that Jesus said "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." So, before you can worship in the way that God desires, you have to develop a relationship with Him through faith in Jesus, His Son.

The best way that we can praise and worship God is with our every thought and action. Romans 12:1-2 states, "Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God -- this is your spiritual act of worship. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is -- his good, pleasing and perfect will."

Praise and Worship - Love from the Heart

Many people think that praise and worship is only singing songs at church, but it is so much more! It is also a condition of your heart -- a willingness to exalt God and yield to his will. Worship is an expression of love and awe to the God who gives us more than we deserve. Whether you express your worship by singing, playing music, dancing or in some other way, remember that you are called to worship God with your every action, every day of your life. God is holy, loving, and worthy of all our worship and devotion.

"Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength." (Deut. 6:5)

- Delight yourself always in God's goodness by sharing the unfailing love of our Lord Jesus Christ to the lost souls.

DON'T GIVE UP HOPE

When the path ahead is dark and you're feeling all alone.
Don't give up hope. I have not left.
Believe and come on home!

I love you, child. I'm always there. I'll never leave your side.
Trust your heart. Be not afraid.
Let me dry the tears you've cried.

Your past is gone. Let go the pain. I made this day for you.
Behind the clouds a rainbow waits.
Hold on I'll see you through.

Love each day. Laugh each day. The sun will shine again.
The pain is there to help you grow -
Now let this day begin!

- This poem made by someone else was really inspiring. I wasn't able to see the author but whoever (s)he is, thank you. This poem makes sense. People who lost their hope and asking God for any chances, this message is for you. We must always remember that, ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE WITH GOD. Sometimes we are questioning God "why it's happening to us" but behind this question there is a revelation from Him that we have to know and realize. Whatever situations you may have now, just put in yourself this words "I believe and trust you God with all my heart, with all my soul." And claim some verses in the bible like this:

"So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.
Isaiah 41:10"

Hold on to the verse/s you had chosen and every time you talk to Him in prayer, INCLUDE it. I'm always doing this, that's why I'm sharing it with you. The Holy Spirit is moving in my life, I feel it everyday! I had so many answered prayers were granted, just in few days or weeks and that's the best thing ever happened in my life. God knows what is in your heart. NEVER STOP COMMUNICATING WITH HIM. REPENT. BE SINCERE. HAVE FAITH. BE STILL AND KNOW THAT HE IS GOD.

God's love,
- ninz